Menopause and sexuality

In the years around menopause, you may experience changes in your sex life. Some women say they enjoy sex more. Other women find that they think about sex less often or don’t enjoy it as much. Low hormone levels after menopause cause vaginal tissues to be thinner or drier. There are treatments to help your symptoms.

What effects will menopause have on my sex life?

Menopause may cause changes in your sex life, or you may not notice any changes at all. Here are some possible changes:

Being less interested in sex as you get older is not a medical condition that requires treatment. But if changes in your sexual health bother you, talk to your doctor or nurse about ways to help, such as treatments to relieve vaginal dryness

What can I do to improve my sexual health before and after menopause?

You can steps to improve your sexual health during perimenopause and after menopause:

How can I treat vaginal dryness after menopause?

For vaginal dryness that causes mild discomfort during sex:

For more severe vaginal dryness, your doctor might prescribe medicines that you put into your vagina to increase moisture and sensation. These may include:2

Discuss your symptoms and personal health issues with your doctor or nurse to decide whether one or more treatment options are right for you.

How can I talk with my partner about menopause and sex?

Talking with your partner about your concerns can strengthen your relationship. Getting older and chronic health problems like heart disease or diabetes can affect your sexual health and how you feel about sex. Some possible topics to discuss include:

You may want to also consider meeting with a therapist or sex counselor for individual or couples therapy if changes in your sex life bother you.

Do I still need to practice safe sex after menopause?

Yes, you still need to use condoms after menopause if you are not in a monogamous relationship. In a monogamous relationship, you and your partner have sex only with each other and no one else. Also, you have both been tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs, or STDs) before having sex without a condom.

Condoms are the best way to prevent STIs when you have sex. Because a man does not need to ejaculate (come) to give or get some STIs, make sure to put the condom on before the penis touches the vagina, mouth, or anus. After menopause you may be more likely to get an STI from sex without a condom. Vaginal dryness or irritation is more common after menopause. This can cause small cuts or tears during sex, making you more likely to get an STI.

Learn more ways to prevent STIs

Did we answer your question about menopause and your sexuality?

For more information about menopause and your sexuality, call the OWH Helpline at 1-800-994-9662 or check out the following resources from other organizations:


  1. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2017). HIV Among People Aged 50 and Over.
  2. North American Menopause Society Position Statement. (2013). Management of symptomatic vulvovaginal atrophy: 2013 position statement of the North American Menopause SocietyMenopause; 20: 888–902.
  3. Food and Drug Administration News Release. (2013). FDA approves Osphena for postmenopausal women experiencing pain during sex.

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