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Bullying is when a child tries to hurt another child physically or emotionally. Kids who bully use their power (like being popular or physically strong) to control or hurt others.
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There are different kinds of bullying. Bullying can be:
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\n - Physical \u2013 like hitting or pushing
\n - Verbal \u2013 like name-calling or teasing
\n - Social \u2013 like spreading rumors or leaving someone out on purpose
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Bullying can be done in person, online, or with other technology (like cell phones). Bullying usually happens over and over again.
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Talk with your child about bullying \u2013 even if you don't see signs of a problem.
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Teach your child that bullying is wrong.
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Tell your child why you are concerned about bullying.
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\n - \u201cIn our family, we believe that everyone deserves respect. When you say mean things, leave other kids out on purpose, or push and hit, that\u2019s not being respectful.\u201d
\n - \u201cIt\u2019s hard to know what to do if someone is picking on you. If you ever have a problem, we can figure out what to do together.\u201d
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Play the \u201cwhat if\u201d game with your child.
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Try asking your child questions, like \u201cWhat would you do if:
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\n - ...you saw someone getting picked on?\u201d
\n - ...someone sent you a mean text message?\u201d
\n - ...you hurt someone\u2019s feelings?\u201d
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Thinking through the answers to questions like these can help children be more prepared to handle difficult situations.
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Look for the warning signs of bullying.
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Talk with your child about what\u2019s going on at school. Your child might be being bullied if he or she:
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\n - Doesn\u2019t want to go to school
\n - Has cuts or bruises
\n - Is acting unhappy or anxious
\n - Complains of headaches or stomachaches
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Your child might be bullying other children if he or she:
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\n - Has a hard time controlling anger
\n - Is very rough or aggressive
\n - Is getting in trouble at school
\n - Has friends who are bullying other children
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Speak up if you see signs of bullying.
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\n - Talk to your child\u2019s teacher or school counselor if you think your child is involved in bullying.
\n - If your child is bullying others, she may need help learning how to deal with anger or other problems.
\n - If your child is being bullied, tell him you support him and you'll figure out what to do together. Encourage him to get help from a teacher or school counselor. Remember, \"fighting back\" isn't a good way to deal with bullying.
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Help your child learn kindness and respect.
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\n - Encourage your child to participate in activities with other children. This can help her build confidence and learn how to work well with others.
\n - Help your child learn how to be kind and respectful to others by setting a good example. You can teach your child a lot by treating him and others with respect.
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Learn more about bullying.
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Talk to other parents and your child\u2019s school to find out how to handle bullying.
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\n - Find out about the school\u2019s policies on bullying.
\n - Ask other parents how they help their kids stay safe on social media sites.
\n - If you have a smart phone, get the KnowBullying app from store.samhsa.gov/apps/knowbullying. It has simple conversation starters to use with your child.
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